#92 - Parenting with Lupus: How to Have Fun

Here are some more suggestions for times when you are stuck in bed or on the couch:


1. Try tossing a small beach ball back and forth.

Little Bear and I have had some of our best belly laughs when I have been stuck laying on my side.

We enjoy buncing the beach ball off of each other.

We are also guilty of flinging stuffed animals.

2. Planned television viewing.

Pick out something together, cuddle up and giggle through the show.

For added closeness wrap one blanket around the two of you.

Too hot?

Lay on top of a shared blankie.

3. Have your child play on the floor near your face.

Younger children don't require you to do a dog and pony show to entertain them.

Children need you to WATCH.

They feel good when you are present and observing their play.

Play is the language of children... this is how they communicate their deepest feelings.

Your child will feel secure and loved, even if you have to be lying down to watch them play.

If your child does try to engage you in building blocks or whatever... and you really are too ill to join in, just tell your child that you love to watch them play... and that you are enjoying them with your eyes and heart.

4. Age appropriate tasks:

Younger children enjoy counting. Give your child something to count or sort... like 100 macaroni, or sorting the colors of Legoes.

Little Bear (age 7) is moving into the next developmental phase which includes a passion for collecting. He goes through sports cards and coin collections daily. I am able to be present with him while he organizes without being too fatigued from his activities. He likes to show-off his collections.